Blog for Moms Over 35

Our group for older moms over 35 parenting later in life blog features moms and experts sharing.  We share about living life fully over age 35, and write not just about parenting experiences, but life, growth, aging, etc.

Given Robin’s personal passion for sharing cool finds, travel destinations, unique attractions and theatre going, she writes periodic reviews of products, services, trips, Broadway and Off Broadway shows and other forms of entertainment, attractions and leisure pursuits….whether for kids, moms or couples.

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MeToo – Mom on a Mission by Amy Wall Lerman

May 10, 2018

Earlier this year, while watching the Golden Globe Awards, I suddenly realized I’ve been a coward my whole life.  Seeing powerful Hollywood women, whom I’ve admired from afar, with their “Times Up” buttons pinned to their black evening gowns, speaking up about sexual abuse, made me realize I had to do something too.  A something I’d been toying with for a while but, like with many of my creative ideas, pushed aside to focus on more practical things (like my job that actually pays a salary).

The idea?  Before Bill Cosby, Matt Lauer and Harvey Weinstein were powerful, abusive men, they were little boys.  Before the women at the Golden Globes became “survivors,” they were little girls.  What happens between childhood and adulthood that makes things go so terribly wrong?

So it hit me.  It was time to do what any good TV producer would do: Make an intelligent kids TV show that flips gender stereotypes upside down and shows kids who they really are and who they can be.  I was tired of bad TV programming for kids, anyway.  They’re screechy, lots of overacting with inane plot lines.  Okay, I know, they’re all fun and entertaining, but are they?  … Continue reading..

SEEDFOLKS: Show Review by Amy Wall Lerman

May 9, 2018

When I told my 10 year old son we were headed to the theater to see a play, he hesitated.

“Is it a musical?”


“Then I’m not going.”

Ever since he saw SpongeBob on Broadway, nothing else will do, so I read him the description of the show.  When I was done, he said, “You got me at the one woman show thing.”  I’m not sure what surprised me more: his Jerry Maguire reference or his interest in a one-woman show. Perhaps he was more sophisticated than I realized?  Well, he was right to be intrigued.  This show could not have been performed in any other way.

Seedfolks is adapted from a magnificent book by Paul Fleischman.  Perhaps the show is so good because the play is also authored by Fleischman.  It’s a novella that brings together 11 characters of varying ages, genders and ethnic backgrounds by means of a neighborhood garden.  But it’s not a garden until one little Vietnamese girl plants the first seeds.  Side-stepping rats and ignoring a trashed refrigerator she finds a spot of earth and plants her dried lima bean seeds.  Her visits to the garden draw the attention of the neighborhood watch – … Continue reading..

Yes, You CAN Be a Mom and a Star! by Liimu McGill

May 4, 2018

People say that being a mother means sacrificing your dreams. They’ll tell you, “It’s not about you anymore.”

But I’m about share my story of how I learned that following your dreams is the best thing you can do for yourself and your children.


When I Dared to Become Extraordinary

From a young age, my dream has been to be an actress and a singer. Things seemed to be going my way for a while – at 17 I got into NYU’s TISCH School for the Arts and worked hard to learn the craft of acting for stage.

But then… shit happened. Long story short, a series of unfortunate events coupled with alcoholism, drug addiction, homelessness and mental illness totally derailed my plans for the Great White Way.

Years later when I managed to get my act together, I had all but given up on my dream of performing. I met a wonderful man, landed an incredible job (on paper, that is; in real life it was a nightmare – but that’s another story!), and I was building a family.

It never occurred to me that I could still sing, act and perform until I stumbled upon a copy … Continue reading..

My Littlest Co-Workers by Dana Klosner

May 2, 2018

I was talking with a Communications Director of a non-profit today, who is a working mom with two small kids. When my kids were little I envied people that could make that work. But, after a couple of bad experiences with day care, I was gun shy.  So, I didn’t farm my kids out anymore. I loved my kids more than anything else in the world, but some days I was sure I would just go insane.

That’s why I always kept up with my feature writing. It was the perfect combination. I had contact with the outside world, but I only had to leave the house in short bursts to interview sources. When I got an ongoing freelance gig at “The Baltimore Sun” my kids were 2 and 6. I hired a babysitter to come twice a week for two hours and everyone was happy. I did all the writing late night after the kids were asleep.

It wasn’t always that easy. My son was born when we were living in Monterey, CA. Can’t complain about that. But, my husband was in The Naval Post Graduate School and stayed at school a lot of late nights to finish his … Continue reading..

NY Theatre Ballet’s “The Alice-in-Wonderland Follies” Review by Andrea Santo Felcone

April 29, 2018

Upon entering the Florence Gould Hall, you are greeted by two charming young girls wearing frilly Alice-in-Wonderland costumes (complete with tea-cup hats on their heads), handing out programs. This delightful touch sets the stage for the completely enchanting ballet that follows.

NY Theatre Ballet Alice in Wonderland

Elena Zahlmann as Alice. Photo Credit: Rachel Neville.

“Enchanting” is the perfect way to describe the NY Theatre Ballet’s “The Alice-in-Wonderland Follies”. Billed as “a ballet vaudeville,” this ballet is enchanting on many levels: for its high-quality dancers, for the spectacular costumes, for the colorful and ingenious set design, for ultimately, its clever concept and choreography by Keith Michael.

Set in “The Palace Theater, New York, in 1915,” the audience is taken on a marvelous journey following Alice as she interacts with many of Lewis Carroll’s beloved “Alice-in-Wonderland” characters. The classic is reimagined with the use of the “follies” concept: there is a dance, The Caterpillar, where a line of female dancers in spectacular green gauzy costumes, perform in a way that is reminiscent of the chorus line of The Ziegfeld Follies. (You may wonder what it would look like to view the choreography from an aerial perspective.) Each dance is presented in a vaudeville style, drawing on a … Continue reading..

What We Think, We Create by Tae Yum Kim, author, THE SEVEN STEPS TO INNER PEACE (Book Excerpt)

April 27, 2018

Everything external in life was first internal in thought, so no permanent change can come about merely by attempting to fix or rearrange external conditions. Yet that’s usually what we try to do. When we see the symptoms of something wrong in our lives, we usually try to get rid of the symptoms instead of getting rid of the mental condition that’s causing the symptoms. Unfortunately, we tend to look only at the surface of most situations. That’s because searching for the cause of a situation requires more insight than is obvious at first glance; it takes time and effort to search below surface appearances.

For example, a friend who shares my interest in gardening had an expensive plant that was dying. The leaves were turning yellow and dropping, so she spent considerable effort giving it more light, then more shade, then more plant food, then more water, then less water, and on and on. Frustrated, she brought the plant to me. I recognized that the symptoms had nothing to do with any surface problem but were from bacteria attacking the roots. I had to pull the plant out of the soil to get at the real problem. To her … Continue reading..

Crying at Yoga Class by Zoe Richmond

April 25, 2018

It’s the third week of “Yoga for Grief.” I am in a pose to stretch out my hips where the teacher says people tend to carry stress. After class, I ask why, and she says it’s tied to the fight-or-flight response.

“Fight-or-flight response engages the muscles in your hips getting ready to either run or kick,” She said.  “If you don’t do either your hips engage but never release.”

I missed the second class because I had an out of town trip. I missed the first class, well, because I am grieving and my brain is too discombobulated to keep track of schedules.

In the middle of the third class, my heart starts to ache, tears roll down my cheeks. It’s a sad little whimper of a cry. I get up and get a tissue.

And that was the second time I cried over the passing of my mother-in-law.

A Sudden Death  

My mother-in-law’s passing was a horrible shock to everyone. Sure, she was 71.  But she had just returned home from a two-week visit to our home.  She was still vibrant and sharp. I found myself alone at home for days while my husband dealt with the business of … Continue reading..

Finding Motherhood in My Fifties by Debbie Oberlander

April 20, 2018

I gave birth to my beautiful little boy just days before my 55th birthday.  He is now approaching three.  I absolutely love being a mother.  I am proud to be an older mom.  I wish I had the courage to be an older mom just a few years earlier, but am grateful for my son, the love and light of my life.

Advances in medicine and third party reproduction have opened possibilities to become a parent in ways unimaginable when I was growing up and fantasizing about my future family.   As I found myself moving through my “childbearing years” without the family of my dreams, I realized my dream would have to take new form.  But coming to this realization was not easy or quick.  The onset of menopause jolted me into my new reality.  Then I took comfort that third party reproduction could allow my “clock to keep ticking”.  However, after a few years I realized that even this route had an expiration date of sorts.

At around 53, still waiting for “Mr. Right” to (re)appear and skittish about doing it on my own, I asked my gynecologist about my window for achieving and sustaining a healthy pregnancy.  While … Continue reading..