If I don’t write this blog post now, I may forget what I wanted to write about.
Just kidding……but really I’m serious. My memory isn’t what it used to be, and apparently I’m not alone. In the new course catalog I received this week from the Open Center in NY, one of the classes being offered is called Carved in Sand: When Attention Fails and Memory Fades in Midlife. The description goes on to say, “Anyone older than 40 knows that forgetfulness can be unnerving, frustrating and sometimes terrifying…..” It is taught by an investigative journalist who has probed this subject for years and shares what the experts have to say.
Another class in the same catalog is called Brain Gym. Certainly an intriguing title. It’s enough that I get myself to the gym for my body (not often enough). Do I have to create an exercise regime for my mind now too?
This is all too much to think about. But, I have found it harder to remember little things. I’ve always been someone who writes things down, and now I’ve even taken to emailing notes to myself from my cell phone when I’m out….so it’s in my face and on my computer when I get home.
I know I’m 47, which is considered midlife, but am I losing my mind? Since I became a mom, my mind is definitely more cluttered, which doesn’t help. So much to do…prepare….plan….and not just for me, but my son, our family, etc.
Guess I just have to accept it and cut myself some slack. As long as I don’t forget to tell my son I love him, he won’t realize that mommy has momentary memory lapses. And, he’ll love me whether or not I forget where he put his Game Boy, favorite baseball cap…..etc.
Do you find it more challenging to remember certain things?