Is This What 40 Something Is?

I’ve blogged about my fibroids. I’ve written about my erratic sleeping patterns, I think due in part to hormones. A couple of months ago, I hurt the rotator cuff on my right arm….I believe due to lifting Seth under that arm. And, it’s still not 100 percent. I didn’t even know what a rotator cuff is. Now I’m all too aware.

As if my health isn’t enough of an open book, I’m going to share the latest. I just found out I have tiny gallstones. And, the gastro doc I saw right away said I should see a surgeon. I totally balked and immediately emailed my integrative doctor and starting researching on the web. He faxed to me a liver/gall bladder flush which patients have had success with when the stones are small. Mine are described as “tiny,” so I’m hoping this does the trick. I’m only mildly symptomatic at this point.

I figured I just had to drink some olive oil and lemon juice as a friend suggested. But, no, this is much more involved, including the use of coffee, berries, heavy whipped creme, etc. I’ll spare you the details. Suffice it to say, this is not going to be a walk in the park. Thankfully I don’t have to drink the coffee….but I’m dreading this whole procedure. And, how do you know if it works? The instructions said that if you feel nauseous during the night, that’s a good thing. We want to achieve that result, it stated. Terrific! Another reason not to sleep.

I’ll do it. I’m a trooper. And, this is WAY better than surgery, even laproscopic.

I had a chat with my trainer at the gym about this, who in addition to working my body, has become like a mom figure/therapist/friend. Sometimes we yak more about life stuff and the exercise lags behind, but it’s always comforting since she is well read on health matters and loves to share.

This past week she confided in me that I should get used to this kind of stuff. That once you hit 40 (not that she or I want to depress you), according to her, your body changes and things happen, however minor. But, it takes adjustment, and ultimately acceptance…and letting go of control if we ever thought we had it. This isn’t easy for me to swallow. I’d rather swallow tons of supplements, than this notion.

I’m hearing this from others too. A friend I recently had dinner with said she has a couple of herniated discs and is now seeing a chiropractor. Another gal I know in her 40s just had hip replacement. And, people are buying reading glasses, taking MSM pills for aches, etc.

Granted, luckily, none of this is serious in the scheme of things. But, as one mom said to me, it’s amazing, because when she was younger, her biggest health concern was an occasional cold. And, now she’s living in a body she doesn’t fully recognize.

At a time when we need self care the most, it’s so hard to get it when mothering requires major time and effort.

I guess going with the flow is the best attitude, and being grateful for our bodies, despite newfound developments.

Anyone else finding 40+ a time for bodily changes?