Just a Number — by Robin

Earlier this week, I attended a luncheon gathering of some interesting older women writers in my town. I love being with upbeat elderly people, women in particular. There’s so much to be said for learning from the experiences of others, especially those who have lived longer than you. I try to soak in their wisdom like a sponge. Such a yest for life which knows no age. And why should it?!

I was speaking on the phone with a friend today who is in her 50s (but doesn’t look it)…and she said that she has been asked how old she is, and she’s coined the response, “Age is just a number, and mine is unlisted.”

I LOVE that. And, I’m going to borrow it, I let her know. She laughed.

Her philosophy, and I agree, is that anything is possible in life. Getting caught up in age can potentially lead to self-limiting beliefs. Expectations…or lack thereof. And, either way, why should we do that to ourselves? We deserve better.

I took an acting class this fall, and I just learned that the acting teacher is about to go on a trip to India to work in an orphanage. She recently celebrated her 70th birthday. She looks much younger, and, she’s never, to my knowledge, had plastic surgery. Not that I’m against it, but it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. (I’ve never done it.) At present, I prefer to go the healthy green tea route. :)

Certainly, as a later mom, especially if you’re feeling tired a lot, it’s easy to say that you have less energy now than you did when you were younger. But, what about mental energy? Are you doing things that are stimulating to you? Do you allow yourself some quality time with friends who really know you and you can share with in a way that feels authentic and meaningful? That in itself can be reinvigorating.

I just signed up to take two local adult ed classes starting in March, and I’m very much looking forward. One is called Writing from the Heart, which is taught by my former acting teacher. The other is an introduction to Tarot Card Reading. Just for fun! I’m curious. I’ve had my cards read in the past and have always been intrigued by it. It will get me thinking out of the box, for sure. And, the description says you will even learn how to read your own cards.

So, who knows what I’ll uncover in the cards? Though, I don’t really want to dwell too much on the future. I’d prefer to live fully today. And, I’m curious who will be in my classes. Since they’re offered midday during the week, my guess is that they will be popular with seniors. And, I welcome that with open arms.

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