Pig Purging — by Robin
It’s been a pig-filled week at my house.
My son is thankfully now over the swine flu…..and I’m doing further purging.
For regular readers of this blog, you know that we gutted and rebuilt my entire basement, and I’ve been spending considerable time both before and now organizing the house. Thankfully, I’ve also had some assistance from our wonderful cleaning woman who is not emotionally attached to stuff like I am.
Up until this week, my focus has been mostly papers, clothing and other things we’ve managed to accumulate over the years living in this house. But, now my attention has turned to pigs, and it’s peaking the interest of friends, which I find both funny and intriguing. I had no idea that others cared about my pig collection or supported my love of them this much. I’m receiving notes expressing shock that I would let some go.
It’s been years since my collection started, back in the days of my working in Manhattan. It started simply with a photo of a pot-bellied pig I posted on my office bulletin board, just because it was cute. Co-workers started to presume I was into pigs, and little by little I would receive them as gifts. While I didn’t necessarily embrace them at first, over time it became a quest. When I’d go on vacation, it gave me something to hunt for. Friends always knew what to buy for my birthday. Pigs would brighten my day, and slowly but surely take over my life and home.
My husband has been very understanding. And, my son has been raised with a love of pigs as well.
But, the time has come to let go….at least a bit. At the suggestion of a wise friend this week, I am releasing some of my collection. And, it has really struck a chord with me. Something about it is freeing. And, right away I posted an item about them on craigslist and freecycle. I decided, in the spirit of the holiday, to give them away for free to some other pig lover who would treasure them as I once did. These particular pigs no longer tickle my fancy, and I was glad to see I was able to let go. Though I did need to do it quickly, for fear I might change my mind. And, the response was more than I expected from interested takers. They were picked up the same day I posted about them…..at 10PM. Couldn’t believe it! I was grateful not to have the chance to sleep on it. The pigs might have looked rosier in the morning.
Believe me….I’m not hurting in the pig department. There’s still a good amount around here. But, I am working hard to invite new, positive energy into the house. And, this was a great way to prepare for 2010. And who knows? I might relinquish more swine in the future, but I’m proud of my effort at the moment and am glad the pigs will be in a worthy home for Christmas.
What can you release from your life that might free you up in ways you don’t expect? Think about it, and feel free to share. I invite you to go for it! If I can do it, you can too. :)
2 Responses to “Pig Purging — by Robin”
I can't believe people were knocking on your door for a pig at 10pm!!
Being Christmas, I think I'm letting go of Christmas. I haven't been feeling well for quite awile, and wasn't up to putting out ALL of the decorations and memorabilia. Although I'm not ready to purge, I may begin by packing up and storing. No one misses this stuff but me, and I don't even miss it if I don't see it!
And maybe I'll get to the day when I just keep the things from my childhood, or items my son made, and purge the rest…maybe.
By Cara Meyers on Dec 25, 2009
I know…that is funny….10PM. You'll know when the time is right…you'll just do it. That's what happened to me. I couldn't have predicted it and would not have been up to it at an earlier date. Human naturs is funny. We get so used to having certain things, when really, if we let go, we'd ultimately feel better, but we might not realize it until we have the strength to implement change.
By Robin Gorman Newman on Dec 26, 2009